StumbleUpon has replace solitaire as my favorite way to waste time on the computer. This morning I found this over at DumbLittleMan.com

The post 8 Things a Pickup Artist Can Teach You About Seducing Your Spouse

The quote, one of 8 tips learned from the seduction community about “picking up” their wives:

Be decisive: Pickup artists train to be decisive, and when they suggest a date they always have a time, a date, and a place in mind. None of this”I’d like to do whatever you want to do” stuff. Decisiveness is sexy, and one can be decisive without being pushy or overpowering. If you suggest a date, then know where you want to go, what time you want to be there, and what you want to do afterwards. If your spouse wants to do something else then that’s fine, but try to always have a plan. Decision making can be exhausting, especially after a long day of work, so be willing to relieve your spouse of that role and create experiences.

Now that’s interesting to me, not just from the vantage point of a flirt, but also from the view of a regular friend.

Don’t invite me to dinner and then ask ME where I want to go!

By the way, the rest of the tips are great too. Perhaps not only for people who want to secuce their spouses, but also as general social tips.
Not only does the opposite sex appreciate these behaviors, but I’m guessing, except for the making our part, your regular friends might like this stuff too.